How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 02:31
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
What firsthand information do you have on prisoner-on-prisoner sexual abuse/rape?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Ask yourself:
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What is a narcissist grandmother like, with her grandchild?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Why has my ex moved on so fast after years of being together with me?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
How can I get over a break up?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Does not procrastinate.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What are the most outrageous violations of restaurant buffet etiquette have you seen?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Making more friends is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What does pompano fish taste like?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
How can I control my daily masturbating habit?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Has your mother ever walked in on you at an inappropriate time?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Do you think this Labour Party is qualified to run our country?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Why would my nipples hurt when I touch them?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
What I need from you?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
That's it for today.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?